How to find the right wedding photographer for you

Oct 24, 2025 | Wedding advice & ideas

Choosing the right wedding photographer can feel like a huge decision, after all, they’ll be capturing the memories you’ll treasure forever. With so many styles and personalities to choose from, it can be tricky knowing where to start. To make things easier, I’ve put together my top five tips to help you find a photographer who feels like the perfect fit for you and your day.

1. Choose a photographer you truly connect with

You’ll spend a lot of time with your photographer on your wedding day, so it’s important that you genuinely get along. Feeling relaxed and comfortable means your photos will be more natural and true to you. Take notice of how you feel when chatting with them, do they put you at ease? Do you feel you can be yourselves around them? Those are great signs you’ve found the right match.

Many of my couples mention in their reviews how at ease they felt in front of my camera, which is one of the biggest compliments I could receive. I often end up being an honorary bridesmaid too, helping with veils, fixing buttonholes, or offering a calm word before the ceremony. Those little behind-the-scenes moments are all part of what makes the day special!

Candid wedding photographer in Essex.

2. Understand their style and approach

Every photographer has their own unique way of working. Some capture the day as it unfolds in a natural, documentary style, while others take a more guided, fine art approach. Spend time reading through their about page, blog and Instagram to get a sense of their tone and personality too.

My own photography approach is natural and relaxed, capturing the day as it unfolds so your photos feel genuine and full of emotion. I’ll give you gentle direction when you need it, such as during group photos and your couple portraits, but I’ll never pull you away for long or interrupt the flow of your day. My editing style is light and bright too, keeping your photos clean, timeless, and full of beautiful soft tones.

If this sounds like the kind of experience you’re looking for, especially if you’re planning a wedding in Essex or Suffolk, you might find we’re a great match.

summer wedding at Bultey Priory in the gardens

3. Look through their portfolio carefully

When browsing a photographer’s portfolio, imagine yourselves in those photos. Do you love the light, the editing style, and the way the moments are captured? If you can picture yourselves in their images, that’s a great indication their style aligns with your vision.

On my website, you’ll find a range of real weddings across Essex and Suffolk, each telling a unique story in my signature light and bright style. Whether it’s golden-hour portraits in the countryside or joyful confetti moments, my goal is always to create timeless images that reflect the story of your day.

golden hour cople portraits at Hengrave Hall wedding venue in Bury St Edmunds.

4. Make sure you trust them completely

Trust is one of the most important parts of choosing your photographer. You’re inviting them to capture one of the most important days of your life, so you need to feel confident they’ll look after every detail.

With over 10+ years experience I’ve photographed weddings in all sorts of weather and lighting, so even when the unexpected happens (because, let’s be honest, it often does!), I’ll be there to keep things calm and running smoothly. My couples often tell me they didn’t just gain a photographer, they gained someone who genuinely cared about making their day as perfect as possible.

If you’re tempted to ask a friend to photograph your wedding, have a quick read of this post about why hiring a professional photographer makes all the difference.

wedding couple about to get married at Butley Priory

5. Meet in person (or virtually!) before booking

There’s no better way to get a feel for someone than by meeting face-to-face, whether that’s in person over a cuppa or via Zoom if you’re a little further away. It’s a lovely chance to chat about your plans, view some wedding album, and simply see if you click.

I always love these chats, it’s where I get to hear all about your plans, your vision, and those personal touches that make your day unique. So, if you’re planning a wedding in Essex or Suffolk and want to talk all things photography, I’d love to hear from you!

wedding couple walking over the bridge during sunset at Fennes wedding venue in Bocking

A final thought

Finding the right wedding photographer is about so much more than photos, it’s about finding someone who understands you, your story, and your vision for the day. If you’re looking for a wedding photographer in Essex or Suffolk who creates light, bright, and joy-filled images while keeping things relaxed and fun, I’d love to chat about your plans.

Get in touch here – I can’t wait to hear all about your wedding!